this piece is triggering, it brings light to a harsh but necessary conversation that we should be having, over and over again, because i fear that this stuff will never stop. https://twitter.com/buzzkillmag/status/1264971292379361282

you could say that every girl who likes bands has a story like this and you wouldn't be wrong. it happens, it happens constantly on different levels and what can you do, what can i do to protect myself from it? i'm 21 so some of this conversation i've aged out of but how do i

protect my younger friends? how? why is it every fucking month it seems a band member from a band i love is revealed to be a rapist or a creep? am i supposed to accept that this is just how it is here in these scenes or am i allowed to be angry?