TW: sexual assault
a person being blamed for r*pe is ridiculous.. as if everyone isn’t on dating apps and meeting up w strangers all the time.. it’s not bc they made some sketchy decision to meet up w someone they barely knew.. its not a substance issue.. it is NEVER OKAY!

And if ur going to bring up women lying and allegations ruining mens lives/reputations then also discuss men spreading rumors about sexual acts w women that also ruin reputations.. and FUCK we know that being drunk impairs impulse control.. does that only excuse behavior of men?

Why is it the victims fault that they werent able to get help while inebriated and the assailant gets to use it as an excuse? And don’t fucking mention clothing!! Stfu about it and dont question me about my experience like Im not sharing the full story.. theres a fucking reason!!

Its triggering for me to bring up, but when I hear someone say it only happens bc of substances.. I was sober when it happened.. I will not allow an ignorant person to try and educate me. Nope.. I’m gonna walk out next time..

I know this thread doesnt address all sides and situations regarding sexual assault.. it is coming out of my own experience and frustrations.. if anyone ever needs someone to listen or anything.. contact me.. I love all of you so much https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="❤️" title="Red heart" aria-label="Emoji: Red heart">