Ladies, remember that we black women are in control of our own status and destiny.

1. You and I responsible for representing black women. Not mainstream media.
2. You can be oppressed or liberated based on whether you partner with dominant males or conquered males

3. The world doesn't need less pictures and depictions of lightskin women. It needs more pictures and depictions of darkskin women. (Darkskin women & allies like me can do this without help from anyone else in today's world of social media)

4. People calling us angry, bitter, or any other negative stereotype isn't what controls public opinion, whether or not we respond angrily or bitterly is what controls that.
5. You don't have to wait for permission from anyone to be get deeply in touch with your femininity.

6. You don't NEED to be protected and provided for before you embrace your femininity. Your femininity will help you attract protection and providence and then once you have your masculine counterpart then your femininity can begin to reach it's fully potential.