Attention trans girls: crossdressers are not your enemy. The existence of crossdressers does not invalidate your identity, and it's so important to unite under the common threat of transmisogyny rather than divide ourselves like this.

The forces that led us, t-girls, to suppress our desires and womanhood are the same ones that made the crossdresser begin to think of his inclination towards certain clothing as wrong, taboo, fetishistic even. Recognize how much we have in common.

The difference between me & a CD could be as simple as me being lucky enough to find a healthy community at a crucial point, while he didn't. That is not his fault.

Yes, many sissies and CDs and femboys are misguided, but that's why we should welcome them with open arms.

I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad, but: there are a few points in my life where, if I had seen a trans woman tweet about how much she hates crossdressers like that, it would have scared me back into the closet for another year.

https://twitter.com/MusketAnna/status/1264940290424680451 Yes yes absolutely!!!! There's nothing inherently wrong with being a sissy, a crossdresser, or a femboy, or whatever, and they're not just stepping stones on the way to being trans either.

When I say "misguided" I simply mean a lot of them, bc of their communities, don't have the same theoretical framework that we do, they don't have a nuanced understanding of gender. Plz don't take that to mean their identities can ONLY be products of misinformation lol