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How To Make a Girl your Girlfriend Effortlessly
Will you be my girlfriend?
“I want you to be my girlfriend”
I still remember when I used these kind of statements on girls I wanted to date. And most times their responses were not encouraging. I normally got replies like this;
Will you be my girlfriend?
“I want you to be my girlfriend”
I still remember when I used these kind of statements on girls I wanted to date. And most times their responses were not encouraging. I normally got replies like this;
“Okay I’ve heard you.”
“Really, are you serious?” (In a sarcastic manner)
“Give me some time, let me think about it.” (And as you know most times, that ‘sometime’ means ‘forever’)
Sometimes, the reply will come as a question;
Why do you want me as a girlfriend?”
“Really, are you serious?” (In a sarcastic manner)
“Give me some time, let me think about it.” (And as you know most times, that ‘sometime’ means ‘forever’)
Sometimes, the reply will come as a question;
Why do you want me as a girlfriend?”
As you can see this question puts the pressure on me. Then I’ll start spitting all the rubbish lines I learnt from romantic movies.
Which didn't always end well with me.
However, during the early period of my journey towards understanding women; I realized that girls don’t want
Which didn't always end well with me.
However, during the early period of my journey towards understanding women; I realized that girls don’t want
to date men who chase them, rather they love men who they chase.
And whenever I asked girls “Would you be my girlfriend?” I was chasing them. And then they start running by forming for me.
I knew I had to stop chasing them. But most importantly give them a bait, so
And whenever I asked girls “Would you be my girlfriend?” I was chasing them. And then they start running by forming for me.
I knew I had to stop chasing them. But most importantly give them a bait, so
they would start chasing me.
And that’s what I’ll reveal to you today.
NO DIFFERENTIAL TREATMENT
Now, the mistake I see most men make is that they treat that girl they want as a girlfriend differently from the ones they want a causal relationship with.
And that’s what I’ll reveal to you today.
NO DIFFERENTIAL TREATMENT
Now, the mistake I see most men make is that they treat that girl they want as a girlfriend differently from the ones they want a causal relationship with.
They happen to take risks and move fast with ladies they want a causal relationship with, but become timid, play it safe and move so slow with that girl they want as a girlfriend.
Listen to me bro, the easiest way to lose a girl is to move slow and avoid risks with her.
Listen to me bro, the easiest way to lose a girl is to move slow and avoid risks with her.
Personally, I treat every new girl the same. Whether you’re the prettiest girl in town or the most innocent and decent looking girl in the area.
I always move fast with girls, I don’t place any girl on pedestals, because I know that’s the easiest way to lose her.
I always move fast with girls, I don’t place any girl on pedestals, because I know that’s the easiest way to lose her.
So on the first date I flirt with every girl, indicating I’m much sexually interested in her.
For instance, there was this girl who complained on our first date when the waiter was wasting a bit of time with our order.
For instance, there was this girl who complained on our first date when the waiter was wasting a bit of time with our order.
“This restaurant is so slow ehh,” she protested
Then I gave her a sexy stare, with a bit of a mischievous smile and I said using a bedroom kinda voice;
“So you like ‘it’ fast, uhhh? I thought ladies always loved it slow.”
“Hahaha… OMG! your mind is so dirty,” she replied.
Then I gave her a sexy stare, with a bit of a mischievous smile and I said using a bedroom kinda voice;
“So you like ‘it’ fast, uhhh? I thought ladies always loved it slow.”
“Hahaha… OMG! your mind is so dirty,” she replied.
Trust me bro, 98% of ladies love a guy with a dirty mind.
Now this type of flirting is called sexual humour. This doesn’t mean you should be vulgar. There are other ways you can flirt with girls though, such as eye contact, touching, teasing, and so on…
Now this type of flirting is called sexual humour. This doesn’t mean you should be vulgar. There are other ways you can flirt with girls though, such as eye contact, touching, teasing, and so on…
But just know that flirting is a must on the first date.
So back to what I was saying,
I move fast with every lady, show my interest in her, and I always try to invite them to my apartment on the first date. EVERY lady. No exceptions!!!
So back to what I was saying,
I move fast with every lady, show my interest in her, and I always try to invite them to my apartment on the first date. EVERY lady. No exceptions!!!
Most ladies decide on what category to fix you in after the first date. Whether you’re a friend, lover or boyfriend material.
So it's always best to make your intentions clear from the first date with every lady.
So it's always best to make your intentions clear from the first date with every lady.
HOW TO MAKE A GIRL YOUR GIRLFRIEND EFFORTLESSLY.
Now if you see a lady, and you would want her to be your girlfriend. Still move fast with her, take risks with her, and don’t be scared you might lose her. And if she doesn’t respond positively, don’t chase her.
Now if you see a lady, and you would want her to be your girlfriend. Still move fast with her, take risks with her, and don’t be scared you might lose her. And if she doesn’t respond positively, don’t chase her.
It just means she’s not that into you.
And if she agrees to go out on a date with you. Use the first date strategies on her.
But pay attention to this;
“Don’t tell her you want her as a girlfriend.”
And if she agrees to go out on a date with you. Use the first date strategies on her.
But pay attention to this;
“Don’t tell her you want her as a girlfriend.”
However, show her you’re in interested in her and that you’re single. How can you do this?
1) Create an emotional connection with her: This is the most important part in having success with women. If you can create an emotional connection with a woman, you’ve
1) Create an emotional connection with her: This is the most important part in having success with women. If you can create an emotional connection with a woman, you’ve
already gotten her 70%.
So what is emotional connection?
This is the feeling you give a girl that you understand her; that you can relate to her and that you don’t judge her. That same kind of feeling you’ve when you just met a stranger and it
So what is emotional connection?
This is the feeling you give a girl that you understand her; that you can relate to her and that you don’t judge her. That same kind of feeling you’ve when you just met a stranger and it
feels like you two have known each other for ages.
How can you create this connection with ladies? By knowing how to hold a conversation with a lady. Knowing how to get her to tell you things she only tells very close friends, in a very short period of time.
How can you create this connection with ladies? By knowing how to hold a conversation with a lady. Knowing how to get her to tell you things she only tells very close friends, in a very short period of time.
You can do this by asking the right questions, and listening to her. I talked a little about it in the post titled first date strategies.
And this is the BAIT you give girls to start chasing you.
And this is the BAIT you give girls to start chasing you.
2) Let her know you’re not desperate to enter a relationship: When you tell a lady “I want you to be my girlfriend on the first date.” It shows desperation, and girls don’t react too well to desperation.
Personally if I want a girl as a girlfriend, on the first date I’ll chip in that “I love the idea of being in a relationship someday and that I really love seeing cute couples together. However, I can’t just rush into relationships without getting to know the person a bit first.
This tells her that you’re a boyfriend material and you’re a bit picky when it comes to people who you enter a relationship with. And you being picky means you’re valuable. Then she starts chasing you for a relationship.
However, if I don’t want a relationship, just a causal stuff; I’ll let her know that, “I love my single life, and I don’t see myself in any relationship soon. I just want to give maximum attention to my goals.
And moreover, life’s so short, so I’m trying to enjoy every moment of my life.”
This tells her I’m not a boyfriend material, I’m a bit wild. But, since I’m exciting these naughty feelings in her, I might be a worthy lover, and she’ll likely give me a try.
This tells her I’m not a boyfriend material, I’m a bit wild. But, since I’m exciting these naughty feelings in her, I might be a worthy lover, and she’ll likely give me a try.
And this is what’s called Frame Control.
HOW TO KNOW WHEN SHE WANTS YOU AS HER BOYFRIEND
So, when you’ve made a girl start chasing you for a relationship; you’ve to know when to accept her request before she gets frustrated and leave.
HOW TO KNOW WHEN SHE WANTS YOU AS HER BOYFRIEND
So, when you’ve made a girl start chasing you for a relationship; you’ve to know when to accept her request before she gets frustrated and leave.
So these are some of the signs you might see when she wants to have a relationship with you.
Maybe when you want to get physical intimate with her; as in you want to do some boyfriend and girlfriend things with her, she might say something like this;
Maybe when you want to get physical intimate with her; as in you want to do some boyfriend and girlfriend things with her, she might say something like this;
• Wait, wait… what are we? What do you see me as?
• Leave me alone… I’m not your girlfriend.
• Please, don’t come near me oo, before all these your girlfriends pour me acid.
• Leave me alone… I’m not your girlfriend.
• Please, don’t come near me oo, before all these your girlfriends pour me acid.
Now whenever you hear these kind of statements it’s now time to seal the deal. You now assure her that she’s your girl.
For example
1)
Her: Wait, wait. What are we? What do you see me as?
You: I’m the best thing to happen to your life and you’re the best thing to happen to mine.
For example
1)
Her: Wait, wait. What are we? What do you see me as?
You: I’m the best thing to happen to your life and you’re the best thing to happen to mine.
Or you could also say;
You: You’re my bae, and I’m your boo.
2)
Her: Leave me alone… I’m not your girlfriend.
You: How’s that possible when I’m your boyfriend? Are you already cheating on me hun? (In a sarcastic manner)
You: You’re my bae, and I’m your boo.
2)
Her: Leave me alone… I’m not your girlfriend.
You: How’s that possible when I’m your boyfriend? Are you already cheating on me hun? (In a sarcastic manner)
3)
Her: Please, don’t come near me oo, before all these your girlfriends pour me acid.
You: Then, they’ve to pour the acid on us together, because I’m not leaving your side.
Just be a little smooth with your reply.
Her: Please, don’t come near me oo, before all these your girlfriends pour me acid.
You: Then, they’ve to pour the acid on us together, because I’m not leaving your side.
Just be a little smooth with your reply.
Another way to know she wants you as a boyfriend is that; she might start getting jealous when she sees you with another female.
And when you notice such. Give her a kiss, or some other thing which is a bit romantic and tell her,
And when you notice such. Give her a kiss, or some other thing which is a bit romantic and tell her,
“You’ll make a lovely girlfriend. I hope you know?”
And that’s how you get a girlfriend effortlessly in this 21st century.
Conclusion:
If you want a girl as a girlfriend. Move fast with her. Take risks with her (don’t be scared to go for the kiss on the first date).
And that’s how you get a girlfriend effortlessly in this 21st century.
Conclusion:
If you want a girl as a girlfriend. Move fast with her. Take risks with her (don’t be scared to go for the kiss on the first date).
Be charming and connect emotionally with her. Then let her know subtly in your conversation you’re single and ready to mingle, but you’re not desperate to enter one.
Then when she starts chasing you, seal the deal. And all these could be sealed in less than 14 days.
Cheers,
Then when she starts chasing you, seal the deal. And all these could be sealed in less than 14 days.
Cheers,
