[1] I’m sorry but I just need to speak on “Lola had an abortion and stated that Ben was the reason”. I know Ben dragging her out the salon is horribly wrong but the wording of this rlly threw me off. I’m aware Lola said that she couldn’t keep the baby as they need to focus on him

[2] (after him/Lexi got hit by a car I believe??) but saying “Ben was the reason” makes it sound like she’s shifting maximum blame onto him when it was actually a multitude of factors such as being unprepared and having to prioritise Lexi.. also Ben didn’t even know lol

[3] Disclaimer : This thread isn’t me defending Ben’s violent reaction at all. I just think it’s a bit iffy to pin the blame on someone completely unbeknownst to your pregnancy in the first place for your choice to abort (I’m not saying the choice was wrong just blaming Ben)