i only allow myself to be a sub around my girlfriend even if she's a sub herself because i only trust her with that space
and even if she can't dominate me I don't care because her accepting that i can also be a sub sometimes and APOLOGIZING that she can't help me even if she-

-doesn't have to because she's a sub is enough for me. she's so different from everyone that forced me into a shell and accepting (regarding BDSM because if i had to describe everything about her this thread would never end) and i love her so much :(