A Thread:

Yesterday my good sis @cartwright_xo made a point about asking men to see the goods before you get invested and she was onto something

What guarantee do you have that you will have a good time when you don’t know what he’s packing? It’s even worse when you look at the statistics

The orgasm gap: studies have shown that cisgender pairings report the highest gap between partners climaxing. Men climax 85% of the time and women around 60%.

Remove men from the equation and you’ll find that lesbian couples report higher orgasm rates and women are more likely to climax during self pleasure

To make matters worse men report that they think their partners reach orgasm 91% of the time

My point here is this. Men and women can both have a good time during sex. But as a woman you’re more likely to get less out of it. So there’s 2 solutions

Only sleep with men who you’ve heard about being good in bed. I call this the Yellow Page method. Use previous reviews to make an informed decision to guarantee maximum pleasure

Solution 2: Make sure you’re getting something other than sex from him. So when you’re sat there after the deed counting down till you’re reunited with your vibrator you can reassure yourself with “ At least he took me to Hakkasan”

Anyways the stats in this thread are real but don’t take this too message seriously.

Wishing you more orgasms inna ya life.

Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/stress-and-sex/201510/the-orgasm-gap-simple-truth-sexual-solutions?amp