Yesterday my good sis @cartwright_xo made a point about asking men to see the goods before you get invested and she was onto something
What guarantee do you have that you will have a good time when you donât know what heâs packing? Itâs even worse when you look at the statistics
The orgasm gap: studies have shown that cisgender pairings report the highest gap between partners climaxing. Men climax 85% of the time and women around 60%.
Remove men from the equation and youâll find that lesbian couples report higher orgasm rates and women are more likely to climax during self pleasure
To make matters worse men report that they think their partners reach orgasm 91% of the time

My point here is this. Men and women can both have a good time during sex. But as a woman youâre more likely to get less out of it. So thereâs 2 solutions
Only sleep with men who youâve heard about being good in bed. I call this the Yellow Page method. Use previous reviews to make an informed decision to guarantee maximum pleasure
Solution 2: Make sure youâre getting something other than sex from him. So when youâre sat there after the deed counting down till youâre reunited with your vibrator you can reassure yourself with â At least he took me to Hakkasanâ
Anyways the stats in this thread are real but donât take this too message seriously.
Wishing you more orgasms inna ya life.
Wishing you more orgasms inna ya life.