Maybe if you need people to perform their grief and trauma so you can cast yourself as an empathetic person, you weren& #39;t that empathetic in the first place?

I feel like this isn& #39;t kind, and I& #39;ll probably delete it, but the idea that being a parent is the key to enlightenment feels extra prevalent during this lockdown and it is working my last nerve, it is a huge flashing red warning sign for me that het nonsense awaits.

Guys, I love kids! I love hearing about your kids, I love hearing about how proud you are of your kids, I love hearing about the stupid shit they do!

I just think it is entirely possible to understand why some people can& #39;t or don& #39;t have kids, and that they might be struggling with the biggest global crisis in most peoples& #39; living memory, too.