The fact that I can walk into Target and buy whatever I want. Multiple times a week.
When my daughter asks for a Barbie, I can get it for her.
June rent was paid two weeks ago.
I am debt free.
I live within walking distance of about 6/7 supermarkets, mostly organic.
I have been working from home.
I’m not in a toxic, miserable ass relationship where I’m questioning my worth and being verbally abused.
I am able to afford to pay for therapy out of pocket. (2 years and counting)
I give to others when I can and always help people if they need assistance (if it’s within my boundaries)
I advocate and speak up for myself. I don’t let people walk over me and I am quick to cut ties.
I stopped doubting who I was as a mother (even though this is my first child and I am still learning while she’s learning)
I have grown so much from the broken victim-mind girl I once was. I did the work and am doing the work.
I am the captain of my ship (not looking for anyone to save me) and I am consciously creating my life. Basically
God really does answer prayers. But He also wants to see us do the work and evolve. It’s a sense of pride when you take control and declare that you change.
Oh just adding to this thread, I love my dad. I see him and he somewhat is starting to see me.