still thinking ab how obama was gonna marry a white/asian woman but then he stopped because he said it was gonna be bad for his political career to not be with a visibly black woman. like

and this is before he even had an established career. he literally told the woman he was seeing no because it might fuck up his nonexistent career https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/book-party/wp/2017/05/02/before-michelle-barack-obama-asked-another-woman-to-marry-him-then-politics-got-in-the-way/