I want to add, everytime someone accusses Venus of only being with Lilly because she& #39;s a chaser on no grounds other than she& #39;s cis and Lilly& #39;s trans, it makes me think they musr also think my boyfriend could never love me for *me* and wow thanks for that https://twitter.com/comradevenustas/status/1264716552416493568">https://twitter.com/comradeve...

Accusing cis people who are in a healthy relationship with a trans person of being a chaser is pretty hurtful to me and I& #39;m sure plenty of other trans people. It sends the message that we& #39;re unlovable and the only value we have is being a fetish, and I think that& #39;s fucked up

My boyfriend loves me because I& #39;m really supportive of him, we& #39;re both there for each other, he thinks the way I act is adorable, he loves my laugh and my voice and the funny autistic sounds I make when I& #39;m happy or frustrated, and soooo much more!!!

He always feels so self conscious someone will accuse him of being a chaser for no reason other than that he loves me, and I always have to reassure him, Because he& #39;s the loveliest sweetest man I& #39;ve ever met and he& #39;d NEVER take advantage of me like that!!!

And as the trans person in a relationship like that, the implication that I could only ever be desired as a fetish really sucks. Blegh https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤮" title="Face vomiting" aria-label="Emoji: Face vomiting">

When y& #39;all accuse Venus of being a chaser, I see that. We see that. Stop projecting your internalized transphobia on us. We& #39;re worthy of love