You should never go out of your way to ask people about girls, you should learn everything you can about girls from happenstance interactions that turn into mutual desire to keep interacting

If you know too much about a girl ie; you ask their friends about her to get some & #39;deets& #39;, she will intuitively, perhaps not consciously, be put off by you, bc you will be acting in such a way where you seemingly know more about her, than you to her

Trying to metagame and trying to avoid anxiety/stress/& #39;awkwardness& #39; in the moment is not only cowardly, but you& #39;re putting yourself further away from your supposed goal, which for the record, if your goal is to get a GF, you will not make it

You goal should be to improve your personality and mental construct first (mental issues), then your physical construct (physical issues), then your peripheral construct (life issues, job, hobbies, home, etc) and then become a passionate virtuous person, then they will come

The Masculine element is shown by Yang, which is best described as Form, while Yin is formless

If you focus your yang outward instead of inward, which causes yang poisoning, then the formless may warp around your form