Yawn, so did fatima RA not feel “mercy” for the unmarried muslims when she complained to the prophet aswa about Ali RA wanting to take another wife beside her? No woman is obliged to feel so much “mercy” for unmarried muslims that she put her own akhira at risk ,women who make it https://twitter.com/yaqeento_jannah/status/1264640017030213632

clear they dont wanna be cowives alot of times dont want to be tested in their deen because they know if such a thing happens to them they can not be patient and may end up behaving in a way that does not befit them so they stay on the safe side

Practicing polygyny is a religious rukhsa, something thats simply allowed,not encouraged,not discouraged either unless under certain circumstances (and yes times of fitnah included),so stop trying to push it as if its a religious obligation