The idea that people who are autistic lack empathy is one of the most unfounded and pernicious myths out there
I think a lot of this myth come from differential performance on theory of mind tasks. But, performance on these tasks is heterogenous w/in populations. And, more importantly, theory of mind (& the tasks that "elucidate" it) is not the same thing as empathy.
A person might not draw upon the same social cues to make inferences about another person& #39;s knowledge/intention/feelings that other people do. That doesn& #39;t mean they do not have empathy re: the nature of the other person& #39;s experience. This is just false.