I see people saying that aftercare is a kink? Aftercare is a mandatory step that you as a dom must do in order to make sure that your baby is okay. Bathe them, wash them, dress them, hold them, cuddle them and reassure them that they did an amazing job.

Your baby relies on you to guide them and they rely on you to let them know that they’re okay. You are their safe space. Aftercare is NOT an option! Your baby deserves all the love, care, affection and attention - they’re your baby and you as a dom have a responsibility for them

Thought I’d add to one of my previous tweets:

Aftercare for a dom is also important! Doms need reassurance that they didn’t hurt you too much, that you enjoyed it and you’re okay. They need you to tell them that you know they didn’t mean all the mean things they might have said-

They need to know you still love them. It’s the little things that make a dom happy. Remember that your happiness and safety is their number one priority:)