A long time ago I tried committing s****** when my ex cheated on me with a woman he met at a club and later moved in with her. My family saved my life.

I am going to generalize now so please UCs ignore what I am about to say. This is for me and my people"

The system is at war against us. We have to accept this and stand with our own and love our own. Down the road of loving UCs rarely do we find love back. Instead its a string of gaslighting, manipulation and sheer exasperated mothering/pampering of the spoilt brat narcissist UC.

UCs and us have nothing in common. And that is just getting wider and deeper as time passes. Marry/Love across religions among our own people but don& #39;t think marrying/loving "up" is going to solve issues.

They only benefit from the system. No matter what their politics is. The system is designed to protect them. Please my brothers and sisters, don& #39;t make this mistake of getting into a relationship with such deep power imbalance. And if you do, make sure its on your terms. fully.

I know they might seem very captivating and interesting but our people are 10x that. We really genuinely don& #39;t need them. For years I was in thrall of my ex, thinking I will never meet anyone like him. But once I got over him I realized he wasn& #39;t even that great. He was blah.