Working for free is a gift.

I worked at a sales agency for a year. No salary. No commission.

Here's what one year of working for free taught me about life.

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(1/20) It doesn't matter what you say as long as you say it confidently.

If your idea seems good enough, people will follow you if you choose to lead.

A confident man eases others' doubts just by showing up.
(2/20) Everybody wants to give advice.

It's ok to listen, but it's not ok to follow advice just to please others.

People are actually good at giving it.

The problem is they have no idea what your circumstances are so it's often irrelevant.
(3/20) Ads are overrated. Trust relationships.

If ads can get you inside the building, relationships will get you to the pent house.

There is no marketing technique more powerful than keeping it real.
(4/20) People want to buy, but you need to hold their hand.

Have a smooth process and guide people through it.

They won't buy if it implies too much willpower.

You bring the energy, they bring the money.
(5/20) Filtering is the ultimate skill.

-> Not all information is relevant.
-> Not every topic should be argued.
-> Not every feeling should be felt.

The more you learn to ignore, the more you can focus on important matters.
There are skills I didn't include that you need to know.

-> Storytelling
-> Persuasion
-> Confidence
-> Praise
-> Listening
-> Validation
-> Humor

They're all included in The Psychologist's Handbook newsletter.

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(6/20) Overthinking comes from poor preparation.

The reason you overthink is because your think you wasted your past and are worried about the future.

PPPPP -> Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance
(7/20) Walks are underrated.

Your mind is like a phone and everything you do drains the battery life.

Going out for a walk is like plugging yourself to the nature outlet.

Sage mode, if you will.
(8/20) You can bear anything with a friend at your side.

No matter how hard life gets, math always proves true:

A burden is lighter if two people carry it.
(9/20) Speak slow.

The reason you rush is because you think you'll lose people's attention if you don't.

Nonsense.

Speak slow, control the frame and people will fit into it.
(10/20) Always pay for the first date.

This applies to women, leads and business partners.

They could pay for it themselves, but you need to show friendliness before you scale.
(11/20) Communicating Skills are non-negotiable.

-> Writing
-> Speaking
-> Storytelling
-> Humor
-> Asking

Cultivate these and they will put a roof over your head.
(12/20) A good design goes a long way.

You could still send the message across if you have poor design.

But all things equal, people would rather buy from a nice Power Point than a Word Doc.
(13/20) Fluff and buzzwords are suicide.

All these do is increase the distance between the speaker and the listener.

Keep your message simple and direct. People respect that.
(14/20) Never assume.

If you assume, you're working to fix a reality that may or may not exist.

Verify stuff for yourself.
(15/20) Pride and bureaucracy go hand in hand.

Bureaucracy wants to see you do well, as long as they do better.

Be careful about questioning corporate decisions.

They don't want truth, they want to be right.
(16/20) Have a notebook.

Your mind sucks at

-> Memorizing
-> Prioritizing
-> Logic

Writing stuff down will help you

-> Clear up mental space.
-> Get things done.
-> Come up with new ideas.
(17/20) Ask for help.

Not asking for help will make up for a good story.

The problem is you probably won't do anything worth telling.
(18/20) Learn names.

Humans love being looked at, even though nobody's looking at us.

Learn somebody's name and you'll make them feel important.

99% of people don't so you'll stand out by default.
(19/20) Drawing your own game plan will do more for you than following somebody else's.

Ask for guidance, but don't imitate others' style.

Find yours, adjust it and make it work.
(20/20) Know when it's time to move on.

There comes a time when you've learnt enough.

Saying goodbye is the only way to keep growing.
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