I can.
Heterosexual women have many times over chosen their incompetent male partners, over themselves and their careers.
Hetero women are literally trained to call this happiness, to call hyperfixation on maintaining a clearly dysfunctional relationship their purpose in life. https://twitter.com/itsonly1lisa/status/1264249502271262721

I got dragged for filth by tons of women, some even feminists, for pointing out how calling your wedding day, “the best day of a woman’s life” causes women to hyperfixate on romantic relationships as their one chance to experience the best day they ever will.

These same women will turn around and be upset that this woman chose instead to throw away her career, than pay attention to the actual problem in her life, her incompetent, unhelpful and jealous spouse.
Duh.

Don’t you know that women are conditioned to make these choices?

The parts of patriarchy that you “enjoy” and “look forward to the most ” are not created in a vacuum.
There are reasons why those parts are heavily encouraged for women to lose their minds over. And over & over again, women find themselves in fucked up places, because of it.

The thread I’m referencing. https://twitter.com/doreenglm/status/1243909674828574720?s=21 https://twitter.com/doreenglm/status/1243909674828574720