A man that loves you, will know you. He can read your energy without you having to speak. He will seek to understand you, the good, bad and ugly so he knows what to protect/cover. Men are protectors. Men that are aloof, just don’t care because they don’t love you.
That’s what the pursuit is. They are seeking you. They are seeking to understand you. So they will ask about your past. Try to uncover why you are how you are. It’s in their nature to protect you. They are pursuing you not physically but pursuing that which they need to protect.
I really hope y’all wait and get introduced to that type of love. Cause it’s crazy. You’ll acc be shook cause it’s not what you’re used to. But there really are men out here that God sends to lead you and lead you well. Men that not only desire you but value you.
Men that see you before you see yourself. Men that push you to step out of comfort and be all God has called you to be. Men that cover you, men that protect you, men that position you,and men who understand your role as a helper and will humbly ask for your help.
Stop feening to marry men that don’t love you and wait for the one that does. I’m using love real strong because he can come already loving you. Modern day Boaz, probably already been watching you. Studying you. Seeing what you do and how you are, and how you fit in his vision
So the pursuit is literally to get to know the you that other people don’t know. What he can’t learn from just observing. He’s literally pursuing your soul. Your mind and emotions, and it just hit different to have someone that committed to you. So ya all this to say. WAIT ON GOD
Stop the Missionary Dating! The things you see on Twitter, men doing the most even in QUARANTINE. Those men don’t have 2 heads lol. Men that love you will blow up your phone, make plans, make sure you’re good consistently and usually say I love you first!
Thinking of you texts. Just because flowers
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Jacob was in the Bible working 14 years for one woman and it felt like nothing to him. Yet you’re waiting on a man to call you.
If I S C R E A M, if I S H O U T !!
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If I S C R E A M, if I S H O U T !!