TW:Manipulation, Gaslighting, Sexual Coercion & Assault/R*pe.
You said just @ you next time?Here's a gift of the clout you love @ZalimShady, prevly @BertSnakehxle aka Viggie aka Vignesh Devadiga who is the most manipulative, sex-obsessed, Gaslighting POS under his wokeboi garb
This'll be a LONG #thread as it has 3 stories,1 girl wishes to remain anon. Ik he'll know who is it & a lot of others might too. To everyone else, I'd appreciate Y'all keep her identity safe. To Vignesh,even TRY reaching her & I will DESTROY you even if it's the last thing I do
He deserves a fuckin Oscar for being such a good actor man! Had me AND whole Twitter fooled!What he did with me is like the beginning of his "wholesome" act & the end of it is getting sex any way he can. Manipulation,fake love, wholesome acts, big gestures. All of it-lies!
I see it now. Once I shared exp I had w him, he was recognised. I wasn't even gonna name him coz I STILL thought it was all in my head. Guess he's too predictable bcoz he did it so often?What followed was a plethora of SAME SHIT he's pulled with BOTH of us &It's not just us 2.
Funny how he claimed to be "in love" with me but was still "fucked up" by an ex when in reality he fucked her up for LIFE!The more I learnt the more it was watching my worst fears about him come true. He's a woman's worst nightmare!
As the conversation progressed, I was reliving our entire conversation and it was the same fuckin pattern-barely knowing each other, being flirtatious, wholesome way & talks about physcial intimacy. Ik bcoz I felt the same kind of weird but thought I was Overthinking.
Here's where shit got so serious, I just KNEW in my gut that will come next is going to make me hate him forever. The conversation was just a confirmation of my WORST fears about him which I'd been mum about. When she said he visited her, I knew it before she said what happened
I didn't wanna believe this but I just KNEW he'd gone to have sex!It was her 1st time! She BLED ALL 3 times. You didn't STOP!She told him to go out multiple times.They never left the room! Coz he wanted to "spend longest time w her"!He made these puppy dog expressions to convince
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I kept confirming if he asked consent Everytime coz I knew in my heart that he didn't,& just coerced & took advantage of how much she thought she loved him bcoz of the wholesome persona he'd created.If that wasn't enough he did something worse the next time he "surprised" her
And it's not even like he didn't know what he was doing? He knew EXACTLY what he was doing. He admitted it too! And I have receipts! Gotta appreciate that even in his "apology" for doing the unspeakable he made HIMSELF a victim & his "guilt" wouldn't let him live!
Here's the thing with him, when he realizes he's fucked up, he's ALWAYS "not in a good space", "wants to make amends", " let me make this right", "can we go back to being friends" Ik that coz he told me the same too!He wanted her to FORGET he said that he r*ped her! The AUDACITY
After they officially broke up, he still kept gaslighting & manipulating her into letting him in making her guilty for leaving him. And she kept wanting to see him for the guy she thought he was than accept the alternative coz it was scary so put the blame on herself. Exhibit
When she visited the city he again played games, tried to get her alone, and tried every possible & tried kissing her. When it didn't happen till hedrooed her to the station, he tries again in the train (see pic)
This guy is so fucked up thst she admitted being afraid of him! That he's her worst nightmare! Her biggest mistake in life was to meet him. To just think she's living in FEAR of him!!! NO ONE deserves to live like that in fear. I've read his msgs & the gaslighting he's done🤢🤢
For the longest time I thought I'm overthinking this, it's my anxiety. Turns out every awkwardness, weirdness or hesitance I felt it wasn't just my insecurities, it was a sign that he's bad news.I feel DUMB that it took me so long to figure him out after everything he put me thru
I began talking to Vignesh on Jan 2. He slid into my DMs with this excuse of being shy & akwkward in response to uploading a pic. Barely after 3 times of talking he started talking about "oh you've never had an orgasm" bcoz I said I'd never dated or got intimate with anyone
As awkward I felt atm I didn't say anything coz I do talk about taboo topics even on my TL so I could talk to him as well right? I mean there's nothing to be ashamed of being a virgin? I shared about my life+ Ig I was in such a bad place that I was happy with a slightest of love.
Even in his flirting there was always something physical, & I cringe at physical touch (it scares me). Now I don't flirt in DMs or did in my life. I kept telling myself that maybe this is how it works, I'm being too uptight. I should enjoy the attention with shit happ in my life.
I kept laughing it off, trying to keep up. Ngl he asked me if he made me uncomfortable. My dumbass placed him on a pedestal! Oh look a man is asking for consent, he cares for you! Why you gotta be a bitch & put him down. Loosen up a little.
The entirety of his wholesome act is just to make women comfortable around him so they think they owe him something. He asked if I needed help with hospital running around. I live at least 3 hrs of commute (1way) from him. I was overwhelmed.Never in my life anyone offered help
This man was ready to travel all the way to help me? Someone he barely knows since a week? Why? My Overthinking ass kept wondering why me? Of all the people how & why is he falling for me? Why is he still like that after I'm pushing him away. Like she said, he was RELENTLESS.
He sent me the below msg which freaked me out. It was too much for me. Flirting made me a bit weirded out(maybe coz I've not done it much). Him thinking about me like that in a week? + Who confesses such thoughts? I thought he's too honest for his own good! LMAO
I spoke to a mutual friend telling her that he's asking me out & as much as I'd love to go out with someone, live a little but I'm not in a good place, I broke down saying he'd probably feel my life's too shitty for him to stay & I feel too much & he'll give up n I'll break again
I must've asked him a 100 times if he's sure, he can wait, that I'll take time, I have stuff to deal with, I can't be intimate anytime soon, my anxiety is terrible, said Everything that I thought would push him away. He didn't back down. I kept wondering why me? His repsonses
His words, the way he spoke made me feel like bitch for rejecting his advances coz I thought it was my insecurities speaking. I spoke to 2 friends & told about him and they'd corraborate that how MUCH I was afraid of even giving anyone a shot. He was adamant for us to meet.
I told him my Nani is gonna be Hospitalized, I don't have time, I'm tired, which tho true were valid excuses coz I wasn't ready to meet him. We planned to meet on Feb7 that didn't work out. Feb8 he was coming till Goregaon for something, I asked to meet him.
It''s closer to my place, I knew a public place I wanted to go to, it would was a chance to gauge his vibe & decide further. He refused saying he'd had somewhere to be etc. On Feb 8 I began flirting BACK even if it was lame attempts.
He asked me if I was sure about this, I said yes I'd like to give it a shot and where this goes. Now obvi he'll bring intimacy into it. I never thought of it as a red flag until MUCH later. He asked of I wanted to have my firsts with him. I said if this works out then yes.
His response, "Today. Your first kiss. I'll come to your place." I freaked out. I knew I couldn't let him touch me let alone kiss me.I said I'm not ready, I'll freeze, my anxiety will take over. His words, "Let me help you get over that fear, give you your 1st kiss" 😂
I refused profusely mostly coz I wasn't ready to meet. Now since he was ready to come here to "kiss" me, I thought he had time so I suggested meeting in Goregaon. He kept saying he has to be somewhere.
It occurred to me much later that it would've been a waste for him to travel all the way when i wouldnt let him touch me. He was ready to travel all the way for a "kiss" but even when he was coming to a place that was 20 mins away from me he could'nt take out 10 mins to meet me?
Now here's the funny part, once is said yes to trying he said he couldn't commit AFTER pursuing me RELENTLESSLY even when I wanted to run away, even if it was because of my insecurities. And you blamed it on an ex portraying her as a bitch who broke his heart. For what? Sympathy?
Same week @hii_nal called him out in my DMs forcibly trying to kiss her. I had a panic attack thinking, he molested a girl, that too my best friend. I couldn't deal. Didn't wanna talk to him. I told Hinal how I've been talking to him.
She confronted him & warned him to stay away from me or she'd call him out. He msgd me (pic1) ON the day of my Nani's surgery coz it was "important". I knew what it was. But what could be more imp to me than my Nani rn?
Does he read the room? Have any empathy? A few days later I decided to hear him out, he was adamant he didn't do shit. I read their convos. I could see why she never called him out and how he could use it against her. I still made sure gave her an apology she deserved.
I wish I hadn't. I thought maybe it was long ago, he really doesn't remember, they were young, there was a miscommunication. Oh but he knew!See the diff in the msgs he sent to me & to this girl after Hinal confronted him.Hinal CHICK?Her word against mine?WHO TF YOU THINK YOU ARE?
His apology sounded genuine. I still told Hinal she didn't have to forgive him. If she still wants to call him out she can. We didn't. Wish we had. I lost faith in him. He said things like(below) and i was like maybe he really does regret it.
He never did. He was afraid of being called out. In the coming week I lost my Nani & for a guy who claimed to be "in love" w me he hardly even checked up on me. I felt him distancing himself from me. We barely spoke. He always seemed busy.
A week after the last rites we spoke at length the whole day after a long time. He shared about how he wasn't in a good place and I LIKE A 🤡 hyped him, while I cried multiple times a day having lost a loved one. (We spoke on his old Insta, hence I have no SS)
He then "confessed" he's kinda dating someone. Put me in a spiral again. This was when realizations began hitting me. He never liked me. I was just another option. How can you make promises to one person & start dating someone else in 2 weeks!
That too while I was going thru one of the worst phases of my life? Said he's not good space so be there for me, but had time enough to start dating someone else. Tells he can't do Twitter dating while dating someone from Twitter? Chutiya samjha hai kya.
"His hands shake when he msgd me". His mental health could'nt allow him to be with me so he distanced himself. Did you have the fucking courtesy to involve me in a decision that we took mutually? Tell me at least that you can't do this? Knowing how bad my anxiety is?
Now I see that the entire "apology" was gaslighting and playing the mental health card coz he did the same with the girl & with Hinal when they tried to break it off. The way he plays the victim, oho! Award de do koi isko. Exhibit
I was ready to block him since I triggered him no? He begged me not to, coz he "couldn't lose me". He will make it right, he needs a chance to make things right. Not to push me away. Guess how many times he's used such lines 🙃
The amt of gaslighting & manipulation he's put this girl thru is disgusting to the say the least. To think she FEARS him? Noone deserves to live in fear of someone. EVER. To thin I could've met him & had same fate as her makes me sick.Idek which one of hers to put up it's so many
All 3 of us spoke to him even after Everything he put us thru, the worst case scenario being the girl,we believed what he said.Coz technically he played by the books.We were all vulnerable when we met him, all of us desperate for some love & all of us virgins & he took advantage
I thank my stars that for whatever reason he lost interest in me or else I'd have ended up the same. Now I know why he lost "mushy feelings" for me. Coz who's gonna invest time in a girl who's not gonna give you sex isn't it? He moved to the next one who was ready to give that.
I've broken down crying multiple times writing this thread. Less for me and more for what you've done to the girl, knowing that you're capable of doing this shit. Blaming myself for seeing right thru you. My hands shook while I typed it all,
I puked 2ice due to anxiety & seeing him on TL boiled my blood since I found out. For the longest time I self doubted, even tho I was told to call him out, I knew he had clout, he technically did everything by the books, I didn't say a verbal NO.
I laughed it off even of it weirded me out. I still thought or maybe wanted to think he really does mean what he says. I wasn't sure of anyone would believe me even. I was unsure bcoz Ik my anxiety, ik I overthink.But I also knew in my gut that somehow I'm right but have no proof
To Vignesh, I haven't blocked you yet because I WANT you to see this thread. I want you to suffer for what you put Hinal and this girl thru. The "image" you've crafted SO well, I will see to it that it breaks. I'd warned you long ago.
If I ever come to know you've pulled some shit I will cut you off my life. If you get called out I will not listen to a word you have to say. I made that mistake once thinking you might've reformed since it was such a old instance. You'll never change.
I knew you weren't shit after what you put me thru never in my worst nightmares thought you were a fucking assaulter or should I call you a r*pist?
What had you told me when I asked you have you ever been called out or accused or done something?
I'll quote you, "No Priyanka, I never have. I'm proud of my moral values. I can proudly say i have never made any woman uncomfortabe".
Joke of the year! You had Tweeted this Remember... When men were being called out? You forgot to mention you were one of those men!!!
I remember a Mutual telling me about you being called out but couldn't remember what for. Now found that too. So I know we're not the only ones you've done this with. And I have very good idea on why you might've been called out for.
The double life you lead while being all woke on Twitter and calling out trash men and being a Feminist while being an assaulter yourself. How do you even live with yourself? Do you even SEE the FUCKIN Hypocrisy? Or you just use it to get laid.
Ik you'll try to come with "your side" claim SS are out of contexts. They're not.I've read "your side" & her side as well.What you've done is gaslight her & ruin her, something she'll carry for the rest of her life! I KNOW for a fact that you've slid into women's DMs & tried same
You even TRY coming for her, @hii_nal or me,TRUST me when I tell you that, I WILL ruin you even if it's the LAST thing I do. I have all our WA chats,I've read Hinal's and her chats too & if you force my hand I will post them as well for the world to see how manipulative u can be
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