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Lol. The reason why some of you single mums keep getting “used” is because youre looking for “father figure” for your children.
Before you know it, your kids have had 15 father figures in 4 months.
Im not blaming you o, it’s coz society has told you your kids need father figure
Before you know it, your kids have had 15 father figures in 4 months.
Im not blaming you o, it’s coz society has told you your kids need father figure
I get it. But alaye may just want to eat your “special goat meat ayilata”(yimu) and your single mother kpekus (coz they hear it bangs) but you want father figure.
So he acts the part, buys small indomie and says “Tife stopeet”.
Singu moda tink she av find fada figoh
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So he acts the part, buys small indomie and says “Tife stopeet”.
Singu moda tink she av find fada figoh
Everybody learns on this parenting job. Co-parents gan dont have it all together.
The men that ask you “do your kids have a father figure in their life?... you know theyre boys” are usually projecting and telling you what they think you want to hear.
Run o. Wo! Obo e pao bi ibon
The men that ask you “do your kids have a father figure in their life?... you know theyre boys” are usually projecting and telling you what they think you want to hear.
Run o. Wo! Obo e pao bi ibon
Anyways, single motherhood will be easier if you stop thinking from the victim angle and start understanding your choices.
Youll make better decisions and make better judgements.
Youll neither be emotionally needy nor feel the need to find father for your children.
Brace yourself
Youll make better decisions and make better judgements.
Youll neither be emotionally needy nor feel the need to find father for your children.
Brace yourself
Don’t be afraid of your children not having “father figure”.
You, you’re enough.
Open communication with your children. This is the key to any relationship.
You can raise wholesome children by yourself and with God’s help ofcourse.
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You, you’re enough.
Open communication with your children. This is the key to any relationship.
You can raise wholesome children by yourself and with God’s help ofcourse.
You can do it.
No. Im not saying there are men who dont mean well or who cannot be father figures.
Im saying dont let desperation drive to frantically look for father figure or emotional relief to fill a void. You will most likely not find anything solid and that would leave you emptier
Im saying dont let desperation drive to frantically look for father figure or emotional relief to fill a void. You will most likely not find anything solid and that would leave you emptier
