Keep sane mind during dating

1. Make the effort in first 2 wks. Call, meet or text whenever. Not everyday though and not multiple times throughout the day. Unless she wants to.

2. If after 2 week you realise it's just you making the effort back off and wait for her. Do nothing

3. If she doesnt get in touch, move on. She's not into you. Assuming someone hasnt died or some tragedy there's no excuse.

4. If she gets in touch. Ask her out & offer a date. It she says no and doesnt give an alternative, then just say "get back to me" and wait.

Dont contact her until she reaches out.

5. If she reaches out again. Repeat 4.

6. If she says no to dates twice (without alternatives) next time she reaches out dont ask her out. Just keep chat brief and says "gotta go, catch up soon". Never contact her until she contact you

7. Repeat 6 until she asks you or she just pisses off and never contact you again.

If she's into you she'll make just as much effort as you. If she's not move on. Only invest in women who have a high level of attraction for you.

Keeps you sane and not pure af.