...the food prepared by me, he THANKS ME. And before anyone asks, I thank him for his contributions as well. We appreciate each other. We express gratitude. Now everyone say masha’Allah https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙌🏻" title="Raising hands (light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Raising hands (light skin tone)">
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I don’t understand this childish shit that DH promotes. You are a grown ass man and you take pride in not being able to care for yourself? Bro that is EMBARRASSING. That is not the flex you think it is.
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My oldest is 10. I am teaching him to cook and he has regular chores. I am NOT going to send a grown man out into the world who needs mommy 2.0 to look after him. That would be a failure on the part of me and my husband
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BONUS: My husband is an immigrant. In his country he was a doctor. He was a SURGEON. He practiced general medicine in Oman the first four years we were married. Now we live in the US. He has TEN YEARS of medical experience as a physician. Here? He’s a medical intern.
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I was a stay-at-home mom until we moved here. I entered the workforce with no experience. I make more money than he does. Not for ONE SINGLE MOMENT has he been resentful about it. He has NEVER let his ego get in the way. He has worked hard since we got here...
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...going to school and interning 40 hours a week. In a few weeks he gets the distinct honor of returning to work to be the one conducting COVID tests. Lucky him. Friends, HE https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏🏻" title="Clapping hands sign (light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Clapping hands sign (light skin tone)"> IS https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏🏻" title="Clapping hands sign (light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Clapping hands sign (light skin tone)"> A https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏🏻" title="Clapping hands sign (light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Clapping hands sign (light skin tone)"> SURGEON https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏🏻" title="Clapping hands sign (light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Clapping hands sign (light skin tone)"> If he were resentful of his situation I wouldn’t particularly blame him
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But he’s not. He works hard outside the home and doesn’t feel entitled to be waited on when he is home. THIS is what a man looks like. THIS should be the standard, not the exception. DH and his ilk can stand around circle jerking and guffawing over those “simps” who...
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...are actually decent men. But they are spoiled little boys. If my husband can sacrifice a prominent career and work full time plus go to school and NOT feel entitled to being waited on and NOT feel excused from pulling his weight, these spoiled brats can too.
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