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things you may be doing that are preventing union with your divine counterpart - a thread
before i start lemme say this, theres no judgement here. we have all done these things because theyre apart of the journey. take this as you will.
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before i start lemme say this, theres no judgement here. we have all done these things because theyre apart of the journey. take this as you will.
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1- having high expectations of them.
you want everything to be perfect.
you see them as a knight in shining armour, ready to save you and take you off to the sunset and give you everything. remember this isnt a fairytale!!! they arent perfect, they have-
you want everything to be perfect.
you see them as a knight in shining armour, ready to save you and take you off to the sunset and give you everything. remember this isnt a fairytale!!! they arent perfect, they have-
things they could work on and change too. its not gonna happen overnight, just like it hasnt for you. having high expectations on them or how things will go leads to disappointment. you have to let things happen as they do, at whatever pace it will be.
try to put yourselves in their shoes, how would it feel if someone was putting you on a pedestal, and expecting you to make no mistakes or mishaps? thats a lot of pressure. and trust me, they can feel it. treat them like you would as any other person. they are human too.
2 - you feel you dont deserve union.
you have thoughts that you aren’t good enough for them. you tell yourself, ‘if i did this more then they’ll come to me’ but the truth is, no matter what you do for them, it wont make them come to you until you truly believe you deserve it.
you have thoughts that you aren’t good enough for them. you tell yourself, ‘if i did this more then they’ll come to me’ but the truth is, no matter what you do for them, it wont make them come to you until you truly believe you deserve it.
you are enough, period. it’s not about what you can do for them, but about what you can do for yourself. you may also be thinking you dont deserve union or that it wont happen because it hasnt already. but that itself shows you arent ready for it yet.
go inwardly to find out why you feel undeserving of unconditional love. heal old wounds. remember that love is infinite, it is everywhere. you deserve the best, live the truth that you desire.
3- you’re still hurting from the past
i get it. they did things that hurt you and it irritates you to the max. but its not helping you or them. i know its hard to forgive, but its not impossible ; it takes time.
i get it. they did things that hurt you and it irritates you to the max. but its not helping you or them. i know its hard to forgive, but its not impossible ; it takes time.
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i also would like to add the key of understanding. and that a TRUE divine counterpart would never want to *intentionally hurt you. remember this always. if it gets really toxic/abusive.. that is not your df/dm. please reach out to someone you can trust to help leave safely.
4 - checking their social media often
checking who they’re following, what they’re liking and replying to and etc, is not helpful at all. this only goes into a spiral and is a huge blockage to union. this is really harmful because it creates a lot anxiety for you.
checking who they’re following, what they’re liking and replying to and etc, is not helpful at all. this only goes into a spiral and is a huge blockage to union. this is really harmful because it creates a lot anxiety for you.
you don’t need to know everything that they’re up to or or who they’re with or following. it doesn’t matter. social media doesn’t say everything about people. this will also go into my next point -
5- projection & lack of trust
you project a false idea of them which is typically negative. thinking that ‘they aint really shit’, that they’re lucky to even know you and all that, but deep down you know it isnt true. you find things, (ex from social media) to give yourself a -
you project a false idea of them which is typically negative. thinking that ‘they aint really shit’, that they’re lucky to even know you and all that, but deep down you know it isnt true. you find things, (ex from social media) to give yourself a -
reason to dislike them. this also ties in with not trusting them. if you cant see the best in them then you will only see the parts you want to, to defend how you feel. remember that you share the same soul and how you view them is how you view yourself.
6- obsession
in separation, i know it can be hard to not think of them because we get bombarded by signs, numbers and everything reminds us of them. but when you’re giving every thought and time to your person, it pushes them farther away. talking about them constantly,
in separation, i know it can be hard to not think of them because we get bombarded by signs, numbers and everything reminds us of them. but when you’re giving every thought and time to your person, it pushes them farther away. talking about them constantly,
getting many readings on them, and stressing over them all the time is not helping you get closer to union. when you’re putting all your focus on them and separation, you will stay in it, instead of doing the work required to union ; which is focusing and working on yourself.
7- doubt
you doubt if this person is truly your dm/df. you seek for validation from those outside of the journey and let those things get to you. for example, doubting the connection because your close friends/family don’t like them.
you doubt if this person is truly your dm/df. you seek for validation from those outside of the journey and let those things get to you. for example, doubting the connection because your close friends/family don’t like them.
you feel like it’s all in your head or that there’s too much effort & work needed and say fuck it, its not worth it. remember in all these points, ego is coming into play when all these things happen, especially doubt. go into your heart, not your mind.
8- you aren’t doing the inner work
this journey is all about the self. it will bring up a lot of emotions and feelings that can be really intense. its important to get support from those who understand and wont invalidate you.
this journey is all about the self. it will bring up a lot of emotions and feelings that can be really intense. its important to get support from those who understand and wont invalidate you.
our journey can really affect our mental wellbeing so please, if you need to dont be afraid to seek a professional about your emotional struggles so you can continue to heal and cope healthily. be easy on yourself.
ok so if you read all of that thank you! there could be more but this is all i thought of. i hope it helped someone out there. i worked rlly hard on this thread and i hope whoever is reading this can be aware of certain habits and use the power you have to change them :)
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