can we all collectively agree to just. ease up on the lesbian discourse because it’s really getting to me and I know many other lesbians have to feel the same
like. there’s a reason that I don’t participate in it and I don’t make my positions clear on some things. it’s because no matter what I say I’m going to be attacked for it and I’m not in a place where I can handle that mentally
and there are some things that I’m just… not sure about, and that should be okay, because we’re all learning
but the pressure to be perfect on this site really makes you think otherwise, huh
but the pressure to be perfect on this site really makes you think otherwise, huh
we’re all learning about these identities we’ve named and constructed and built relationships around and have history about and I wish this was a safer environment to ask questions but everyone is at each other’s throats and I’m sick of it
anyway, I love my fellow lesbians, I love my bi/pan/other sapphic siblings, and we need to support each other and build each other up, not tear each other down
in honor of pride month coming up we should focus on sapphic love and support, because at the end of the day, that’s what REALLY matters
I do absolutely draw the line at dealing with t3rves though. I have tried before and for me it is not worth the transphobia I get because nothing I say will change their minds
but… and I have experience with this… a lot of people truly just don’t understand where he/him and they/them lesbians are coming from and after I talk to them and direct them to http://lesbianing.carrd.co"> http://lesbianing.carrd.co , their entire perspective usually shifts
I promise you, it’s worth it to help people learn
okay end of thread now??? I love you all