I& #39;ve come to the conclusion that calling yourself a "bisexual lesbian" is problematic, not because you don& #39;t exist and aren& #39;t valid, but because that& #39;s implying that men have a backdoor where they should not. The hostility is abrasive, but try and understand whats happening here

I& #39;m going to use this example because I& #39;ve been through it a bunch.

Have you ever been in gay male spaces in the fandom as a woman? Parties? Telegram groups? Bc they make it VERY obvious that you shouldn& #39;t be there.

Lesbians deserve the right to the same kind of spaces.

It should also be noted that you don& #39;t have to be violent towards people, instead just teach them why it& #39;s important that gay men and lesbians have their own unique spaces. Teach and talk about it, don& #39;t alienate eachother. Nobody gets anything out of hostility.