the thing about fandom discourse is that at this point undoing the damage radfem- i mean anti rhetoric has done in the past 7 years or so will require SO much effort bc what ppl need to be reminded/educated on is not even just "fiction isn't reality", there's so much more that's-
-connected to this. Ppl need to be reminded/educated on the feminist sex wars, lgbtq history, what is radfem rhetoric and how they indoctrinate/recruit, sex-positive feminism, the harm of anti-porn rhetoric, psychology, kink and trauma survivors, why kinkshaming is bad, etc
That's so much stuff. when someone is an anti bc they don't get All That... how do you even begin to unpack it all? it feels like an impossible thing, how do you even sum it all up in like max 3 tweets? that's impossible.
but if you put any more effort into it, they will ignore it all anyway, so what's the point? it's going to be so hard and i bet it's going to take many, many, Many years. i feel exhausted just thinking about it.