About Infertility,
Let’s get something straight. Before a COUPLE can say they are infertile:

1) You must be having SEX na. REGULAR one. Like a minimum of 3X a week.

Mekus Onyeoma na China, cannot be visiting Naija twice a year & his wife will wear infertility as a ‘crown’🙄
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2) The sex has to be unprotected! No contraceptives. Condom or pills! You cannot be using condoms during your ovulation and think you’re infertile. Contraceptive use/abuse & recent discontinuation of hormonal contraceptives can be the cause.

📝Sex must be REGULAR and UNPROTECTED
3) The sex has to be EJACULATORY.

The man has to be shooting in something. Yes, some men have ejaculatory problems. They “shoot blanks” & most times to save face, they “fake ejaculation”. Some women won’t know or notice this.

📝Sex has to be REGULAR, UNPROTECTED and EJACULATORY
4) Sex, with all the above listed components must have been on for A Year.

Sex has to be REGULAR, UNPROTECTED, EJACULATORY, for about A YEAR, between a Man and a Woman!
If all these are in place and yet no conception... then we can point at INFERTILITY and commence treatment.
Treatment is basically identifying the possible causes and risk factors and “attacking them”.

It could be from the man.
It could be from the woman.
It could be from both.
In rare cases, cause might be unknown. In this case, thanks to science, we try other means of Reproduction!
As @NaijaObgyn said.
“Children are gifts, we don’t own them. They pass through us. A child can choose whatever route to get to you. Get your gift the way”.

Adoption.
Surrogacy
Assisted reproductive Tech. Etc

Parenting is not in the conception, it’s in the raising & nurturing!
Don’t put yourself under undue pressure. Don’t do same to others.

Dear men, when she’s pregnant, “We are pregnant”... right?

When she’s not pregnant... best know it’s two of you in that too.

Fertility Treatments, prayers and fasting is not just for the women, it’s for you too!
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