Finally reading Impro on you folks& #39; recommendation and it& #39;s an astounding book, I& #39;ve never read another one like it https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="๐Ÿคฉ" title="Star-struck" aria-label="Emoji: Star-struck">
I had tears in my eyes a fraction of the way into the first chapter...

It& #39;s such. A. Hopeful!! Vision of the world. You can tell from the voice he uses that everything here is full of magic
I can& #39;t wait to recommend this to anyone who is in a position to teach, mentor or lead

There is so much wasted potential energy when these interactions come from a place of fear
There are many things in the Status chapter which my dancer& #39;s instinct recognises

Trying to get people to change tiny little body things because it changed the whole way I partnered with them

"if you just change how you& #39;re holding your knees..."

Now I know why!
Conversations are 100% more fun when you can status flip back and forth between you

I love love interacting with people who /play/ with me with their words and body language

Something for me to learn is to be more observant, open, and actively /inviting/ play
My pillow talk game is about to get so much better just from this chapter
Ever grateful to my first dance teacher (in Argentine tango, which I sadly no longer do) who made me learn to hold still before he taught me any moves

As this framing might put it, play high status to the dancefloor, and then you can status play with your partner
I feel called out https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="๐Ÿ˜ณ" title="Flushed face" aria-label="Emoji: Flushed face">
What was that thing on Screen Apnea I was reading the other day?

Staying in all day is gonna really take a toll on some folks, just in terms of psychological reactions to _space_
*butterfly meme*

is this middle management?
Many solid learnings, but I also cannot understate the sheer quantity of deep belly-laughs I& #39;m getting from this book https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="๐Ÿ˜‚" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">

Particularly the examples
I love love love how he talks in a way that shows he truly believes that it& #39;s not the case that anyone "just can& #39;t do" something https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="๐Ÿ˜" title="Smiling face with heart-shaped eyes" aria-label="Emoji: Smiling face with heart-shaped eyes">
Damn, remembering all the genres of art I stopped producing because I internalised that it wouldn& #39;t be good so I tried harder which made the art worse and then cycle https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="๐Ÿ˜ญ" title="Loudly crying face" aria-label="Emoji: Loudly crying face">
No, worse than that: not just that the art wouldn& #39;t be good. That I as a person was deficient

Inelegant, clumsy, forced, tasteless. Ugly

For some naive poetry and some lacklustre sculpture? An awkward audition?

Damn
I gravitate towards the people who make me feel safer this way, relaxing my guard a bit at a time

I have a strong flinch reaction, even with them, when I sense some judgement

Sometimes someone /tells/ me they think my ideas are good, but I see in their face that it is not so
I love "obvious", in non-fiction and learning contexts. "Obvious" means simple, useful, popular, worthwhile, and best of all - memorable.

I should extend that to creative pursuits too!
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