This article makes no sense to me. Why would you stay with someone who won't work or do childcare? Why would you give up your career? The adult human who can't raise his own child for a few hours a day is the problem. https://www.thelily.com/i-had-to-choose-being-a-mother-with-no-child-care-or-summer-camps-women-are-being-edged-out-of-the-workforce/

Y'all, the husbeast and I are splitting the kid duties, but 14 year old boy means the husbeast is doing more right now because the attitude is a lot & he's got more patience. The idea that he would just..tap out is just...my pressure. It's not my career or family, but my pressure

The fact that he thinks it is okay to ruin her career prospects & won't even explain. Girl, divorce him. Now before he tries to run your pockets dry.