Can I ask a question?

The next time I go on a date (maybe the third date or w/e), can I ask a guy what he thinks about domestic labor?

'Cause these stories are scaring the hell out of me. https://twitter.com/staceyNYCDC/status/1264005641867276300

I totally understand that a child upends lives but even before the pandemic, women have been getting on Reddit complaining about what their male partners won't do.

How are we sharing a life and home together if you can't grab a broom or dish detergent?

Like...I'm a single woman who is surviving a pandemic. I took care of my own bills, do my work, and I maintain my home.

Dating is gonna be a whole lot different when lockdown is over because I can't take this bullshit. If we share a home, it is OURS. I am not your mother.