men only: please reply with a fresh selfie

everyone else: please be nice to the men

(if this isn't a thing you normally do, my one tip so far: take at least 10, trying different things with your face, neck, the lighting, the angle, etc. before picking one) https://twitter.com/shadescreen/status/1263883305285570561

oh i wish i'd included this in the original tweet: if you're up for it you can indicate whether you're open to feedback about either your selfie game or your appearance game (of the form "i bet you'd look great if you did this thing with your hair / used this angle")