THREAD: Alright I need to make this statement so that I can get all my thoughts about bi/pan lesbian discourse off at once and then mute the terms so I never have to think about it again. This is a STATEMENT, not a discussion, and as such I will not be reading replies. ...
First off, I want to state that I& #39;m not about to go crusading against anybody, I& #39;m making this thread specifically so I don& #39;t have to think about this shit. ...
Also when I say "women" or "men" I& #39;m talking in general terms, post-binary gender identities really complicate things, but I think you& #39;ll get my point regardless, I& #39;m not trying to get super deep into those definitions.
Lesbianism to me, (and to all the real life lesbians I& #39;ve talked to), is not just about our attraction to women, but also specifically our lack of attraction towards men. It& #39;s kind of a core component of it, and bi/pan lesbianism does not seem to understand that. ...
Also, all the real life lesbians I& #39;ve meet seem kinda weirded out by it as well, and most of the people I see supporting it (besides the bi/pan lesbians) are not lesbians in any way, and it kinda feels like an outside force tell lesbians who is a part of their identity. ...
Note that this does not seem to happen with the gay community
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Also I should note that overcoming my weird comphet stuff was honestly the hardest thing in my whole journey of discovering my identity, and this whole "lesbians can like guys" think did not help in the slightest. ...