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Thread 1. An incident occurred between my hubby & I. Words were used that made me feel I frustrate him. Over the next few days more incidents occurred leaving me feeling even more so that he found me frustrating. One left me very upset & extremely angry. I wanted to tear him a
Thread 2. 2nd arsehole kind of angry. So instead of addressing the problem it became the elephant in the room. An elephant I desperately wanted to address but not while I was seething mad. Eventually well.... 24hrs later my anger had subsided enough I was ready to try talking to
Thread 3. him. It was horrible asking him if I frustrated him & then having to explain why I felt the way I did. He hadn't realised he was doing/saying things that I'd found hurtful. I explained that I'm human too & my pride gets dinted by throw away comments or 'anger dressed up
Thread 4. as comedy. Tit for tat does not make for a positive relationship & I will not accept it in mine. How am I meant to learn about my behaviour when I'm not told about it?!? I'm not a mind reader & I deserve more than sly digs. Good news though by working though my anger
Thread 5 *through my anger. I was able to approach him & talk to him. This resulted in our 'shit getting sorted. Things have been so much better since. Anger is a valid feeling but not a good place to be holding conversations from. Still quiet weird & new to us all this as my
anger didn't know any bounds. Angry me would use words to hurt on purpose, would be manipulative on purpose, would be cruel on purpose, spiteful, vengeful even hateful & all without an inner conflict. I like me better now 
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