Thread 1. An incident occurred between my hubby & I. Words were used that made me feel I frustrate him. Over the next few days more incidents occurred leaving me feeling even more so that he found me frustrating. One left me very upset & extremely angry. I wanted to tear him a

Thread 2. 2nd arsehole kind of angry. So instead of addressing the problem it became the elephant in the room. An elephant I desperately wanted to address but not while I was seething mad. Eventually well.... 24hrs later my anger had subsided enough I was ready to try talking to

Thread 3. him. It was horrible asking him if I frustrated him & then having to explain why I felt the way I did. He hadn& #39;t realised he was doing/saying things that I& #39;d found hurtful. I explained that I& #39;m human too & my pride gets dinted by throw away comments or & #39;anger dressed up

Thread 4. as comedy. Tit for tat does not make for a positive relationship & I will not accept it in mine. How am I meant to learn about my behaviour when I& #39;m not told about it?!? I& #39;m not a mind reader & I deserve more than sly digs. Good news though by working though my anger

Thread 5 *through my anger. I was able to approach him & talk to him. This resulted in our & #39;shit getting sorted. Things have been so much better since. Anger is a valid feeling but not a good place to be holding conversations from. Still quiet weird & new to us all this as my

anger didn& #39;t know any bounds. Angry me would use words to hurt on purpose, would be manipulative on purpose, would be cruel on purpose, spiteful, vengeful even hateful & all without an inner conflict. I like me better now https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="♥️" title="Heart suit" aria-label="Emoji: Heart suit">. End Thread.