Midnight DM, a ~Twitter Love Story~
tw: rape threat, perversion, pedophilia
This is a conversation I had last night. It represents a patriarchal, misogynistic mindset that is sadly prevalent.
Men need to learn NOT to do this.
Women need to know they& #39;re not alone.
More below:
tw: rape threat, perversion, pedophilia
This is a conversation I had last night. It represents a patriarchal, misogynistic mindset that is sadly prevalent.
Men need to learn NOT to do this.
Women need to know they& #39;re not alone.
More below:
(2) It started with him asking what a crepe was (see my bio). Then he asks me where I live
It becomes obvious fairly quickly that he& #39;s not the kinder type of guy when he said "I expect reply from people whom I talk." (make sure to answer men immediately or you& #39;re a bad person!)
It becomes obvious fairly quickly that he& #39;s not the kinder type of guy when he said "I expect reply from people whom I talk." (make sure to answer men immediately or you& #39;re a bad person!)
(3) He makes it very clear what he wants. I tell him I& #39;m not interested. He continues.
He asks to make "honey moon in the chat"
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I think you can infer what that means.
I think you can infer what that means.
(5) This is where it gets spicy. He says, "But I want to, and I will, even if you don& #39;t want"
Twitter is a global platform. This man is from India. Yes, every country has different standards, but threatening sexual assault "even if you don& #39;t want" is a rape threat. Period.
Twitter is a global platform. This man is from India. Yes, every country has different standards, but threatening sexual assault "even if you don& #39;t want" is a rape threat. Period.
(6) He asks my age. Note, I& #39;m 22, but I say 16 to see if that would help. He doesn& #39;t care. I wonder what he& #39;d have said if I said 14, or 13.
(7) The reason comes out? He "can& #39;t fuck a girl?"
Is this an incel in the wild?
Quick note: I have thick skin. I& #39;m used to this kind of thing, sad as that is. That doesn& #39;t mean this behavior should continue. I& #39;m a "victim" but I& #39;m strong. Not everyone is.
Be better.
Is this an incel in the wild?
Quick note: I have thick skin. I& #39;m used to this kind of thing, sad as that is. That doesn& #39;t mean this behavior should continue. I& #39;m a "victim" but I& #39;m strong. Not everyone is.
Be better.
(8) TRIGGER: VERY SEXUAL HERE.
I don& #39;t believe I need to go into detail.
He eventually asks if he should go, making me think that maybe, just maybe, he can learn from this; that he has the potential for remorse. Let& #39;s see what happens.
I don& #39;t believe I need to go into detail.
He eventually asks if he should go, making me think that maybe, just maybe, he can learn from this; that he has the potential for remorse. Let& #39;s see what happens.
(9)
I wrote a post last night basically saying how late-night DM& #39;s are the most revealing kind. Then, I give him an explanation, hoping to see him turn a new leaf.
He doesn& #39;t relent, but I& #39;m stubborn.
I wrote a post last night basically saying how late-night DM& #39;s are the most revealing kind. Then, I give him an explanation, hoping to see him turn a new leaf.
He doesn& #39;t relent, but I& #39;m stubborn.
(10)
I give it my best shot, but he still threatens sexual assault.
Some casual misogyny at the end to top it off.
Nearing the end here.
I give it my best shot, but he still threatens sexual assault.
Some casual misogyny at the end to top it off.
Nearing the end here.
(11)
TRIGGER: VERY SEXUAL.
Makes fun of women for using makeup, threatens to "bend me over" and it gets explicit. One more before the finish (woohoo!)
TRIGGER: VERY SEXUAL.
Makes fun of women for using makeup, threatens to "bend me over" and it gets explicit. One more before the finish (woohoo!)
(12)
Last one.
This shows just how prevalent misogyny is for some people. When you decide to ignore them, they keep messaging. If you block? Expect two more the next night.
Guys, we LIVE with this. At this point, we& #39;re conditioned to it.
Please.
Be better.
Last one.
This shows just how prevalent misogyny is for some people. When you decide to ignore them, they keep messaging. If you block? Expect two more the next night.
Guys, we LIVE with this. At this point, we& #39;re conditioned to it.
Please.
Be better.