A few misconceptions:

Having muscles attract women.

If this were the case, savvy women would go to the gym to meet men.

While having a good physique is indicative of discipline, ex-cons also have nice physiques acquired from a lot of free time on their hands.

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Dressing nicely gets you women.

I’m particular about fit, as I’m as particular about shoes.

Unclean or cheap shoes will preclude you from a conversation, but many broke men attempt to hide their brokeness behind high-end names.

It’s the simplicity in the fit that shows class.
Confidence is attractive, true.

But only if You are attractive.

All the confidence in the world won’t make an ugly man any more attractive.

It only makes you wonder where the hell he got his unwarranted balls from.
Some men only derive confidence from their artificial boosters.

A man who is genuinely confident never tells you how confident he is.

You simply observe it in his air, his strut and the way he commands a presence when he walks in the room.
The loudest guy in the room is the rich man’s do boy.

Men with money don’t attract you that way.

They genuinely desire you to like them for them.

The guy with the overt display of jewels and brands, is not exactly broke, but he’s close to it and doesn’t own a house.
Any man that talks about his money, has none.

A man who leads the conversation with what he has and what he does, is a red flag.

Never overlook red flags.

When a man has money, you'll see his assets. You'll know it.

All talk is empty.
A man cannot fake being good looking, nor can he fake being intelligent.

Intelligence is a turn on, always.

But there are men who are intelligent and broke.

He can’t make it work for him. He’s not a hustler.

He’s a reader. Big liability.
A man who is loud and uses profanity lacks class.

He is going to disrespect you.

He’s going to belittle you and will have no qualms calling you every name in the book.

Always choose class. There’s nothing becoming about a thug. You will become one of his many baby mamas.
Don’t waste your time looking for a baller. Everyone else is, too.

They’re just as skilled at the game as you are.

They’re out for a good time and that’s all you’ll get. Go for the engineers, the doctors, the professionals. They’re a better bet, and less savvy at the game.
Nothing good is in the club, but a good time.

But if the club is where you go to attract men, scope the VIP.

But when you do, do not go for the one popping bottles.

He wasn’t the one who paid for it. The humble one in the middle is where the money is at.
Avoid the clubs.

The only club you should be are the country clubs.

That’s where real money is.

But you will need to dress differently, classy, but simple.

The look that attracts the ballers, won’t fly here.

You must go with your girls and play coy.
Height is sexy AF.

6’1 and above competes at another level.

A short man can only compete with money.

But make no mistake, a man who stands on his money, stands very tall.

Though his woman is going to cheat with a taller man.

Height is masculine.
Masculinity is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

It incorporates success and power.

It’s impossible to be viewed as the paragon of masculinity when you can’t provide for your woman and child nor can you compete in the world.

Masculinity, is therefore, all-encompassing.
The shoe size myth.

A man’s shoe size has absolutely nothing to do with his genital endowment.

Nothing.

His fingers, however, do not lie.

Big and thick fingers is exactly what it is. Small and skinny, there’s no guesswork.

This is scientific.
After the initial attraction, it’s personality that keeps you.

Of all the ethnicities and nationalities I’ve encountered in school, at work, in my travels, in business, African American men have the biggest personalities and are the funniest men, by far.

But they’re stingy AF.
Avoid men who harbor feminine traits - who like to gossip and argue like women.

They were raised by single mothers and have absolutely no clue what manhood entails.

They will be nothing but pain, torture and regret for you.
Date a G.

A man who has principles he refuses to violate no matter what.

Who understands the road codes.

Never seen a G say he's a G.

Avoid men who try to convince you they are strong and manly.

They can't even convince themselves.
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