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i absolutely don’t understand grown men and women who do not like definitions. what’s so wrong about defining a relationship, especially when you’re two consenting adults?
why do you want to leave people in the loop so much, for what? let people know as early as possible what you want and practice the habit of asking them too y’all...
yes, what are we? it’s not the most horrifying question because most men think when a woman asks what are we, it means she wants you to put two rings on a fingers and put a baby in her etc and vice versa
when it’s actually a genius question for most, what are we? so i know how to tailor my emotions, so i decide if i want to use protection during our sexual encounters, so i know my boundaries etc
i find people who never want to answer this simple question very suspicious, what at all is your reason for wanting someone to create their own narrative when you can lay it clear for them?
lol i hope we all find people who like definitions, and if one that is presented to you doesn’t appeal to you, you simply decline and walk away.
i must say that, i haven’t always clinched to this idea but i was with someone who clearly defined the relationship and lived by it to the letter...and it was easier for both parties, i think everyone deserves that clarity. it’s wholesome.
why am i ranting about this,this early, i was making myself milo and the concept of definitions just popped in my mind, lol i guess my mind has been doing the most lately.
