There's a vile viral tweet going around about women 'losing arch' during backshots.Reminds me of something @countessblack__ said. She's a lesbian trans woman who does sex work and she blogged about how women expected her to use her dick in traumatising ways, just like cis men.

Her blog was deactivated years ago and I can't find any trace of her still being active online, but she wrote about how *surprised* her cis women clients used to be by her not taking pleasure in hurting them with her dick. Like, they wouldn't know what to do with themselves.

Cis men are really just out here inflicting casual, relentless, consequence-free violence in pretty much every way they can. Including and especially with regard to sex. I hate it for them + the people to whom they have such access, because nobody wins. Not even them.

God will hill them o.