Spend your 20s - educating yourself, building a career/business, getting fit (gym)

Your 30s - you'll have status, financially stable, free, healthy body

Spend your 20s - chasing women, complaining, drug/alcohol abuse, living the virtual life (porn, Netflix, video games)

Your 30s - midlife crisis, divorce, child support, broke, depressed

Your success & your failures depend on you. You are in control how your life turns out. Be very selfish with your youth years, selfishly spend that time putting yourself first, building yourself NOT chasing women or lazing around. Use them to become HIGH VALUE!!!