things that are okay:
- not liking something
- something not being your taste

things that aren't nice:
- saying things are bad because you don't like them
- bullying idols and/or fans online
- excusing what your faves do but not other idols who do the same

other things on stan twt that bother me:

- 'you need to buy ___ to be a stan'
- 'you need to watch ___ to be a stan'
- 'you need to listen to ___ to be a stan'
- 'multis aren't real stans'
- 'you can't just stan one group'
- 'go outside'

- 'girl groups are better than boy groups' 'boy groups are better than girl groups'
- '___ is a flop'
- 'can your faves do this'
- comparing how long you've stanned

ITS NOT THAT DEEP ITS JUST KPOP PLS JUST LOVE IT

i have more things that irritate me wait

- calling someone tasteless
(altho this can be funnyksjndnjfkjn)
- thinking ur ships are real
- but also, not letting ppl ship and not letting people distinguish between fiction and reality
- saying someone who has a bias is a solo stan

- not accepting people can stan/unstan as much as they want
- caring all abt charts and not abt the actual music
- focusing on visuals > talent

- generalising a fandom
- comparing groups

- 'LESBIANS CAN'T STAN BOY GROUPS'
this is the most annoying omfg
- assuming everyone who stans is female
and thus misgendering lol this place sucks

- SUBTWEETING
- expose threads that are borderline stalking
- sending hate to ccs

- humour that's just... mean
this is nuance bc ppl have different senses of humour but sometimes it's too far and it's hurtful :((

- hating on a group bc u don't like the fans :( the idols don't deserve that
- being judgemental of groups without listening to their music or learning about them
- similar to that, calling ____ problematic and defaming them without properly thinking and reading abt the situation

- ggs hating bg stans for just stanning bgs
- bg stans hating gg stans for just stanning bgs
- ppl cancelling others immediately without fully assessing the situation, i can't even explain how harmful that must be, people think it's funny to tweet abt ppl without KNOWING them

LMAO FEEL FREE TO ADD ANYTHING OR DISPUTE ANYTHING U WANT

mentions from deanna
- idea of a 'loyal' multi... what does that mean
- you shouldn't be scared to dislike something
- constant competition

- talking in gcs about other people
- making stanning into a competition !!!!!
- 'they must be a new stan'
- stigma against people who are older??? ????
- '___ is ugly'
ESPECIALLY when referring to men, why is going around around being mean abt men's appearance cool?????

- replying to SERIOUS things with fancams
- rting people's personal tweets... why do people do this omfg
- expecting ppl to be perfect 24/7

- STEALING EDITS/GIFS/TWEETS... THATS A FUCKING SHITTY MOVE

obvs no one is perfect, stan twt is emersive and i've been guilty of these things, so have other people, and that's totally okay~ but really, the internet doesn't exist in a vacuum, if you aren't kind online you AREN'T kind irl, please reflect who u are here too

end of thread until i see something else dumb af;)