If any grad students feel like they need a swift kick in the rear, I highly recommend "The Professor is In" ( @ProfessorIsIn). It provides clear guidelines and practical advice. I finally feel like I have a clear sense of everything I should have been doing for the past 3 years.
Thank you to everyone who recommended it to me. I am not one for "self-help books". I find them obnoxious and generally unhelpful. This book was neither. It was well-written, no-nonsense, and highly actionable. A+++++.