At times it& #39;s only understandable that when you& #39;re a bully or savour dishing mischief or cruelty, fathom taking a pinch of your own concoction at some point and be cool with it.......alittle de tour
There& #39;s one aspect of my upbringing that I remain grateful for up to date, the spirit to never let anyone put me down without a fight. Whatever powers might be but if a thought crosses ur mind to test the waters, my simple advice is "pass
Being a fast developer meant most of my peers from childhood were always older than me, 3 or 4 years. I grew up knowing had to stand up to bullies and abusers on a daily basis, I was the type never to shy away from confrontations,
Thanks in part to my twin, yoh this boy has fought world wars for me and he still is
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Fast forward to Uni (Chanco 2010) second week after continuing students arrived on campus...saturday morning and we were playing inter hostel games, By that time I barely knew any continuing students except Dennis Chinthochi and Sylvester Chidule.
The game kicks on and was paired with this apparent final year guy, definitely 6 or 7 years older than me, to me it was all play coz I was used to real competetive soccer but this guy was weirdly invested
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I didn& #39;t understand his seriousness so I threw in some playfulness, kept running cycles around this guy( I was so good i would do that even to professional footballers) every minute i kept doing that the rough treatment from this guy would go up twofold.
I felt no, he is getting it overboard so decided to talk him down, I barely said man this is just play, no ones getting a trophy afterwards, his classic reply was typical from a bully "yearo undiuza chani? You will leave with both your legs on your shoulder"
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I was like no man, that ain& #39;t it,fair play please, this nigga was so hellbent on breaking my legs to the point he kicked me off play, that was it, I created a 50-50 duel, I always do when I want to legally dish back in a game, I knew he would come out worse and boy did he
Unfortunately he didn& #39;t take it too well and resorted to a physical confrontation. My close friend at that time counsel F. Kamtsalira held me back thinking I was gonna get a whopping, coz besides him being my senior in age he was relatively buffer though short.
I told my friend, boy stay out, it& #39;s not ur beef so just sit and watch. So he did.
Coz not to disrespect him but honestly his contribution and relevance in this situation was close to negligible
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This scuffle lasted just about a minute, I forcefully installed a "respect" software in this bully. But as a package deal, this software comes with shame and embarrassment icons on ur desktop.
He used to be called "a chair " now he turned to "finale omenyedwa ndi yearo" ........................