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When I tweeted this, the news of Tife and Sansa was yet to set this space agog. It was as though I saw the future from the present. The next day I started seeing people dragging the duo with allegations being leveled especially against the lady from different angles. https://twitter.com/crawkeen/status/1261713933976719360
Perhaps because I saw more tweets painting Sansa blue, red, and indigo,it quickly conditioned me to say well, girls are the mature scum, men are just in the larva stage of scum.
In my mind, the chances that a girl would break a guy's heart is 3 times higher than the chances that a guy would break a girl's heart. The reason is because girls are open to more amorous advances from men than guys are from women.
The loyalty of a woman is constantly being threatened by a wide array of choices especially when her boyfriend in question isn't "davidolistically" inclined. She would always put her boyfriend vis-a-vis the myriad of toasters. If she's not morally upright, it wouldn't take time
before she tilts her attention to the direction of a more financially hefty guy. This assumptions were what made me believe to some extent that maybe Sansa truly cheated on Tife as the unsolicited information from people suggested. Of course it's non of business, I resisted the
urge to joke with something as sensitive as someone's emotion. I tried to lean back and read series of tweets on this hullabaloo, they were quite interesting until one person came up with the news that she was a lesbian and was doing whatever with a same sex partner while
also dating Tife. Somehow,I started wondering who are these people? Where are they getting this info? Are there people fuelling all these from the underworld? How did a relationship that was a cynosure of all eyes suddenly became a laughing stock in the market square?
Why is it all about Sansa? As much as it was best for her to keep mute and let the whole thing die a natural death, people were taking this really far and as human, it will definitely tamper with her mental health. It's normal. So when I saw her thread, I felt it was necessary
For crying out loud you both invited the world to your love film and they deserve to be fed with all that transpired especially considering the fact that one person's personality is seriously being dented. One thing that I notice from the thread is that it gave credence to my
Tweet above about the disadvantages of posting your relationship on twitter. As much as it can be sweet seeing people typing "God when" on your beautiful video where you and your lover were goofing around, there's always a downside to it. The more you post, the more you invite
Prying eyes. I for once think the idea of posting each other on social media is a university type of relationship. Let me make it clear, nothing is wrong in doing this, it's okay as long as you both like it but for me, a relationship that will stand the test of time needs privacy
That you're not sharing pictures here doesn't mean you're ashamed of the person whom you are sharing your life with. The moment you start updating this street with unnecessary pictures and videos knowingfull well that you both are quite popular here,
you start creating expectations for yourself. You'd be working your ass out to make your relationship work while covering alot of acrid realities in the name of "What will people say". Even when your partner is constantly being a jerk, you'd be expending too much energy.
Just to cover up. This is to me is what Sansa went through. In the thread, she bottled alot.While you all were saying "God when", she was probably musing "If only you know". I guess it got to a point that she had no other option than to put the rubble of her courage together
And finally pulled out. Whether all she said was true or not, what matters is that a relationship is between you and the other person. It is not a hashtag and you might be doing yourself a major disservice by feeding people's curiosity with pictures and videos all the time.
Celebrating them on a special occasion is fine but ultimately,a pre-wedding shoot can be the best of all relationship pictures to make public. At this point, you have pulled through the thick and thin together and it's only fair that you celebrate the strength of your love.
Lastly, the pain that comes with this kind of break up can cause a suicidal thought. Even if they both stand a chance to settle and come back together, Twitter has helped them blow this out of proportion. Now you are wondering is Tife a rapist? Is Sansa a lesbian? A badge already
All these would not matter if they had made their business private. If for any reason any of them wishes to walk away, it'd not matter, we would not know. But where social media is involved, drama is involved.
Moral of the story :
Your relationship is your personal life, resist the urge to make it public. Keep this aspect of your life private because oyinbo say what, a d!ck enjoyed in private is a sexual privacy
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Taink you
Your relationship is your personal life, resist the urge to make it public. Keep this aspect of your life private because oyinbo say what, a d!ck enjoyed in private is a sexual privacy
! Taink you
