after all that we've been through, i think we really need this.

-a thread on how to 'PROPERLY EDUCATE SOMEONE WITHOUT DAMAGING THEIR MENTAL HEALTH'

tw// at the latter part of this thread i'll talk about mental health

#1 if you are disturbed or bothered bc of one's tweet, approach the person. DM THEM FIRST, it is the best way to handle such situation at first. maybe if you educated them, and ask them politely to take the post/tweets down, the person might be enlightened abt the situation++

and might realize what he/she might have done wrong. let's be considerate enough to hear them out.

it is really rude and biased to judge a person without hearing them out. also, we are not entitled to judge anyone here.

#2 if the dms are off, or if they tend to 'ignore' or can't see your dms (bc you know some of us don't check dms, or doesn't receive notifs) you need to QUOTE RT OR REPLY to the particular tweet.

i gues that's the right thing to do, but you must do it in a polite way. we don't want to hurt someone's feelings and offend anyone, and that's the reason why i'm making this thread, so we can be more careful in approaching them next time.

#3 if they intend to ignore those replies or quote rt, all you have to do is UNFOLLOW, MUTE, OR BLOCK. that's the thing that you musy do. if their tweets were really too much, then all you have to do is REPORT. and YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO ANYTHING ELSE ASIDE FROM THAT.

why? because your role here is to educate, and not to humiliate or spread hate. if you already told them what's wrong with what they did, then thank you so much, you've done a very good job. that all ends there, because if you tried to humiliate, call them out, or++

throw hurtful words to them, then you're no different with them.

aside from that, we are all protected by the law. if you're going to humiliate them, and comment harsh words on what they said, you might end up going to jail too. based on Republic Act 10627 or the Anti-Bullying Act of 2013, what you're about to do's under section 2 (b) (c) (d)

there are other criminal offense that is not under R.A. 10627, some of the cyber crime offenses were stated on R.A.10175 and the crimes under this have minimum imprisonment of ten years and a fine of 200,000 pesos and up

if you want to look for more, you can search these up on http://lawphil.net  or the http://officialgazette.gov.ph 

the thing here is, people might be wrong, but YOU STILL DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO JUDGE THEM, HURT THEM, DRAG THEM DOWN, PUBLICLY HUMILIATE THEM AND THROW HATE ON THEM. no one has a license or a pass to hurt anyone, and you should never ever hurt anyone else.

if you throw hate against hate, then you're not different. we all have different tolerance, and not everyone is brave enough to publicly apologize, not because they can't admit their fault, but the negative thoughts ran first through their minds. and that's the harsh truth,++

you cannot encapsulate positivity all the time. they were judged++

without hearing their side, without giving them a chance to explain themselves. and if you're going to say that it's really easy to apologize publicly for all of us, it might be easy for me, but not for everyone. if you still don't believe, let me give you an analogy.

sometimes we tend to hurt our parents, and we might be sincerely sorry for what we did, but we can't say it to them. sometimes, you and your friends quarrel, and you tend to snob each other, but after letting it cool down, you'll became friends again, even without the++

apologies. not everyone is brave enough, to publicly apologize, not everyone can handle the situation properly. we're all person behind these screens, and we don't know what's going on, these hates that a person gets without properly explaining themselves, it might be a driving++

we're all persons behind these screens, and we don't know what's going on, these hates that a person gets without properly explaining themselves, it might be a driving force to harm themselves. i am not exagerrating things because this is reality.

we are all humans here and we all commit mistakes. we don't have the right to judge anyone just because of a single wrong doing they did, that mistkes just outnumbers all the good things that person did. and what if, you became the 'judged' or 'misinterpreted' person?

can you deal with it? how? so the point is, judge when you're perfect, but sadly, no one is perfect so we don't have any right to judge.

just look, what if the person that humiliated is depressed, having anxiety or any ither mental health problems? if all of these hatred together with the problems he/she has, piled up, it might be the cause to kill themselves. again, i'm not exagerrating things, but++

this is reality. this is the real deal, we know that a lot of tends to be suicidal because of the hatred they get. and they deserve a chance to explain.

not everyone has a friend that they can openly talk to in regards with this problem. it's not impossible that a person only holds it in, with just himself/herself. not everyone is brave enough to talk about what they did wrong, even if inside they're deeply regretting.

i can't help myself but to tweet this bc the experience is really traumatizing and it could've been prevented if i'm approached through dms. i swear, there'll be no drama at all. it really hurts, even if all i got were tons of 'i love yous' and good stuffs.

actually, i am really not aware that my tweets were screencapped, and one of my moots just sent it to me. and what if i didn't happen to know about that? of course you'll change your views about me, i won't be educated, and i will not be able to redeem myself.

so please, the way of approaching is important too. damage has been done, and it is really sad. and what if the person 'called out' isn't brave enough even though they were truly sorry, what will happen then? bunch of hatreds will come bc of misunderstanding.

also, internet was once my safe place, and i think it's a community to love,  we must help each other and protect each other. we are here to educate or to correct one's mistake, not to throw hatred. and we should not feel superior if ever we know that we're on the++

right track. we must be humble too, because obviously, in certain points of our lives, we commit mistakes too. no one is perfect, we are flawed creatures here.