I always thought no one would ever love me, because when I like someone I shower them with love languages. As someone, who& #39;s never been in a relationship, I don& #39;t know any better than to try hard.

But I realised my self need to learn and absorb a person , before I could actually define if we could be in love and along with constant affection could be felt as clingy and suffocating.

So I suppose I& #39;m learning to give space, but is it normal to want to see someone once a week? Is it too much to ask someone to value you at the same level as their to do list?

shoujo manga didn& #39;t set me up for this bro https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clown face" aria-label="Emoji: Clown face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥴" title="Woozy face" aria-label="Emoji: Woozy face">

So had a deep talk with my homie https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥴" title="Woozy face" aria-label="Emoji: Woozy face"> he explained " the faster you run in these relationships, the more people feel like they& #39;re being pulled and won& #39;t be able to keep up, eventually they& #39;ll cut the rope if its too stressful "

And if that didn& #39;t explain why modern dating is a game, I& #39;m enlightened fam.
Sorry if you thought this thread was stupid LOL I& #39;m learning norms here