The reason men are so obsessed with achievement is because nobody gives a fuck about men

Including the majority of men
The closest thing you can get as a man to being cared about, is being cared about because you're useful

Implicit to the role of provider is not being loved for who you are, but what you can do.

True love is very rare.

Most people are just using each other out of practicality.
Many people don't even believe in true love.

Some dudes who follow me would give me flak for saying true love.

"No such thing" "soulmate myth" "Disney bullshit"

But I don't care.

I do believe people can like one another deeply for impractical reasons. It's just improbable.
Men have no inherent value.

Women and children are valued simply for existing

This is why boyhood to manhood is an especially rough transition for males.

Because they're no longer loved simply for existing.

Their worthiness must be proved, or they're nothing. And no one cares
If you want to bitch about being a sex object

Try being a success object

At least people actually give a fuck about your existence

You are not defined by what you can do, but by who you are as a person

You are infinitely more humanised

You dont know what it is to be nothing.
Women preserve their value, men create it.

This is why the average woman is more valuable than the average man.

Especially in a society which favours women over men.

And this is why the feminist arguments that focus on inequality are trash.

They only focus on the winners.
Women, in their infinite desire to upgrade, are blind to the men beneath them, and obsessed with the men above them.

This translates politically as demanding special privileges for women in general, because a minority of men dominate the majority of positions of power.

Idiotic.
And those men sure as shit earned their position, because like I said before, nobody gives a fuck about men.

And so when even the remotest inkling of compassion is linked to one's competence, you will literally breathe to succeed, obsessing over achievement.

Men need love too.
Success isn't a lifestyle choice for men

It's a matter of life and death

It's a lifestyle choice for women

A woman who fails in academia or business can just give up and become a mother

She will still be wanted for who she is

Who is interested in a loser man?

Fucking nobody
So of course men will always outdo women at the high end of society

BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO

But the flipside to that is men who don't make it aren't even assigned a base level of compassion or human decency

They are an invisible underclass

And you fucks smugly mock them
I had more shit to say but I can't be fucked to make the thread longer, and I'm sure I've already triggered enough people into calling me a bitter incel now, so I'll leave it there for now hahaha.
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