If you want to become successful in life do not seek success, seek to become a person of value, make yourself valuable & success will in fact come to you, learn skills, develop talents, create more etc valuable people are success magnets

If no one thinks about you or thinks to call you for anything that means you have not made yourself valuable, that’s the sad truth, no one cares about anyone who has nothing to offer, if you want to be successful make yourself valuable

Seeking success or seeking happiness will keep you in a perpetual state of stress these are not things to seek but results of being a person of value & living a meaningful life, it is really important you know this distinction

We are seeking symptoms if that makes sense, happiness & success is a symptom or result of living meaningfully, it is not a thing to desire or you will always disappoint yourself