people who expect me to hold space for them after years of neglecting our relationship are very courageous.

how can you have the audacity to ask for guidance and facilitation when you were unwilling to reciprocate?

what astonishes me is the amount of people who still expect me to believe that they wouldn’t reciprocate because they didn’t think i needed their support since i was so strong and wise

putting me on a pedestal, i never asked to be on: making me their sole confidant just so they could get the supply they needed to get off emotionally: co-dependency is an addictive emotional rollercoaster

and i gladly participated in supporting people because my cup is full but i can also see how me engaging from that space of abundance could enable parasitic and predatory behavior

hence why i kindly decline systematically and/or at least confront people about their intentions because i am absolutely tired of people dragging their unresolved issues and toxic patterns into my space without actively using the tools i‘ve already shared with them

i have receipts and a great memory so people cannot play into guilt tripping me for not giving them access to my emotional mastery for their own selfish needs