can u b an incel while dating some1? is being an incel rlly just not having sex? it seems that loneliness is a big part of it at least in my experience but then again, or is it more of a sexual frustration thing, and if it is a combination of the two, then which is it more?

what if u r in a long-distance relationship? in that setting circumstances force you to not have sex, but if you and your partner do sexual things are you really an incel? you are still involuntarily celibate by the strictest definition but you still have what many "incels" dont

please share your thoughts on this struggle tweet